A lot of families sometimes have different problems between family members and it is hard to resolve this problems when you’re confused, anxious angry and etc. There are many books and articles where famous authors write about this problem and it seems that family problems will never end. In fact, they won’t. But it’s always up to us to react adequately be sure to do everything we can to improve relations with family members.
While there are no magic tricks or recipes of a happy family life there are several tips that I can give you that might help you solve these kinds of problems. The first important thing to do is to try to listen to your family members. What do they want? What do they like? What do they feel? You don’t always have to do everything what your family members say or believe it, but if you try to understand their feelings and even motives it will help you find a more common language with them.
Also try to understand what you want and what do you feel yourself and explain it in simple words to your family members. Most of use aren’t evil and in most cases we do bad things because don’t understand each other right. Sometimes a situation that is bothering you can make you anxious and angry and in this case it’s hard to explain calm what do you really want. But in most cases our motivation is quite simple and explaining that to our family members can have a great impact on the whole relationship.